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September 7, 2008I had a very nice girefriend. I am really in love with her. but She just broked up with me last year, and I don't know why. She just seemed tired of our relationship. but we remained friends, We speak together every 1 or 2 months once. I gave her some presents for her birthday last month. how can I return our relationship? I fear if go and make a suggestion to her, because she broked up our relationship. God! I can't think about any other girl.
BREAK UP = SOMETHINGS BROKE
I read this at the airport in the book store… "Breakup = Somethings Broke" thought it was catchy and really put my past relationships in line
So, what was broke? I know you didn't innitiate the breakup, but surly you have ideas on what was broke. Do not go back until you're 99% sure you know what was broke, and that you can fix it. Sometimes Humpty Dumpty just falls off the wall, and all the kings horses and all the kings men cannot put Humpty Dumpty back together again.
I've always found that by refocusing the love I was givning to someone else back to myself gives me the advantage. Sometimes, the person comes back because of my new self-confidence, other times, I attract a new love….
Best wishes, keep breathing, you'll be fine.
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Pray to God about it, and follow his rules on dating. If that doesn't work, then there is someone better that is in his plan for you. Sometimes we have to be really broken in order to appreciate someone new that will come in to our life.
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I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I were highschool sweethearts and he up and left after my sophomore year and moved to Houston.He and I both wanted each other back but it was so awkward we didn't know what to do, and there was so much hurt from the breakup it was hard but finally I decided that I wasn't going to lose him to my stupid fear. I jumped in full force. Told him how I felt and laid it all on the line. He wasn't ready so I waited and we stayed friends. I talked to him every day and made sure I was always there for him. I took heart in the fact that he wasn't dating and just showed him that I was a happy and fun person to be around. I didn't let him know how much it hurt to be just friends I just let him see me. And eventually he fell in love with me all over again. We have been married a year now and have a beautiful little girl. All the pain of waiting was worth it. Just let her see you the person she was once in love with and who knows what can happen. Despite the rumors lightening can strike the same place twice.
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if you want her so bad so mack her jelos get one of youer frinds that a girland bretand that she is your girl frind and she will crak and wont you back
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BREAK UP = SOMETHINGS BROKE
I read this at the airport in the book store… "Breakup = Somethings Broke" thought it was catchy and really put my past relationships in line
So, what was broke? I know you didn't innitiate the breakup, but surly you have ideas on what was broke. Do not go back until you're 99% sure you know what was broke, and that you can fix it. Sometimes Humpty Dumpty just falls off the wall, and all the kings horses and all the kings men cannot put Humpty Dumpty back together again.
I've always found that by refocusing the love I was givning to someone else back to myself gives me the advantage. Sometimes, the person comes back because of my new self-confidence, other times, I attract a new love….
Best wishes, keep breathing, you'll be fine.
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Wow! This sounds all too familiar to me. I broke up with a guy last year that has been trying to get me to go out with him again. I don't know your circumstances, but I can share mine with you…maybe that will help.
I broke up with this guy because I felt like he was suffocating me. He had very strong feelings for me very quickly. I tried to tell him to slow down, but he didn't listen. I have no doubt that his feelings are secure. He is a wonderful man, but it still pushed me away.
He has given me a year of space and has recently been contacting me more often. I am actually starting to reconsider dating him again IF he will go slow and not rush anything. We have been talking off and on now for a few months.
I would not push or rush anything. If you do, you can jeopardize what you do still have. I would not shower her with gifts. Keep talking, but do not suffocate her. Give her some space…be there for her…you never know.
I wish you the best.
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